Relay connection gets unstable after session restart

[Pleb5]

Symptoms:

1. Seemingly random events(eg calendar, message, reply, thread, rooms, owner notes) not loading from relay (they do seem to load from indexedDB cache). Checked relay events and they are there, app just does not fetch them sometimes
2. Posting is unreliable (multiple failures on retries)
3. New events don't load either (subs dont work with community relay but other relay connections seemed to work fine mostly)

• Reproduce: Problems appear always after browser session restart: closing and reopening tab, refresh page, interaction after timeout
• Relay auth seems to complete fine
• Does NOT seem to depend on session method (nip07 with nos2x chrome / nip46 with amber tested)
• Does NOT seem to depend on setMaxListeners() event emitter function (the app stays responsive while just things are not loading)
• There are times when after waiting 10-20 minutes it's suddenly fixed

[staab]

This unfortunately is probably deep within the bowels of the networking code. I've been thinking about re-working this for a while. The time may soon be upon us.

[Pleb5]

I pulled in latest changes both from welshman and flotilla.
The issue persists but event emitter subs seem to be kept in check now.
Winning slowly but steadily