proxy: 2.213.0 (#11631)

* Include server address in server error logs (linkerd/linkerd2-proxy#2500)
* dev: v42 (linkerd/linkerd2-proxy#2501)
* Separate tls::ServerName and identity::Id types (linkerd/linkerd2-proxy#2506)
* Use reference-counted strings in dns::Name (linkerd/linkerd2-proxy#2509)
* build(deps): bump tj-actions/changed-files from 39.2.0 to 40.1.1 (linkerd/linkerd2-proxy#2508)
* build(deps): bump actions/checkout from 4.1.0 to 4.1.1 (linkerd/linkerd2-proxy#2485)
* ci: Fix check-each workflow (linkerd/linkerd2-proxy#2511)
* ci: Turn off debuginfo in ci test builds (linkerd/linkerd2-proxy#2512)
* ci: Fix fuzzer listing (linkerd/linkerd2-proxy#2513)
* Use heap indirection to manage type signatures (linkerd/linkerd2-proxy#2510)
* dev: optimize image build (linkerd/linkerd2-proxy#2452)
* dev: Disable nightly install for now (linkerd/linkerd2-proxy#2515)
* meshtls: Extract TLS id verification out of TLS backends (linkerd/linkerd2-proxy#2507)
* Update DEFAULT_OUTBOUND_TCP_QUEUE_CAPACITY to 10K (linkerd/linkerd2-proxy#2521)
* admin: Add optional /debug/pprof/profile endpoint (linkerd/linkerd2-proxy#2516)

* proxy: Use debian12 distroless base image

Signed-off-by: Oliver Gould <ver@buoyant.io>

Author: olix0r

.proxy-version

@@ -1 +1 @@
-v2.212.0
+v2.213.0

Dockerfile-proxy

@@ -1,4 +1,4 @@
-ARG RUNTIME_IMAGE=gcr.io/distroless/cc
+ARG RUNTIME_IMAGE=gcr.io/distroless/cc-debian12
 ARG BUILDPLATFORM=linux/amd64
 
 # Precompile key slow-to-build dependencies