REP-6804 Add option to read oplog directly

[FGasper]

This adds an opt-in mode to tail the oplog directly instead of reading a change stream. Oplog tailing is less resource-intensive on the server than a change stream, which yields better performance and allows verification of more migrations.

Oplog tailing carries a few caveats (or else it would be the default when possible):

• The oplog’s format is undocumented, by design. A future MongoDB version may not work with the present logic. Change streams, by contrast, are fully documented and intended for use in applications like Migration Verifier.
• To capture transactions that are in progress when verification starts, oplog tailing actually starts from the start optime of the oldest transaction that’s in progress when verification starts. This means a few extra rechecks may be enqueued at the start of a verification.

Additional notes:

• Since migration-verifier always reads with majority read concern, we can ignore the term and hash that normally, with the timestamp, comprise an oplog entry’s “optime”.
• ChangeStreamReader.start() is now part of ChangeReaderCommon so that its retry bits can be shared with the new OplogReader type.
• This includes a nascent agg library, which simplifies aggregation usage in Go by providing types for various expressions.
• The retryer now wraps errors with the function description message.
• To ensure that OplogReader doesn’t read too far “back in time”, the integration test suite now kills all transactions between test methods.
• Some of the tests are reordered a bit so that document insertion happens before verifier creation. This was originally done to troubleshoot test failures but seems worth retaining for general clarity.

[FGasper]

(Still not review-ready because it has to store the selected change reader option then fail if it changes between invocations.)