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<h1><a href="https://rainleander.github.io/">RainLeander.GitHub.io</a></h1>
<p><a href="the-farmer-project.html">The Farmer Project</a><br>
<a href="wake-up-beauty.html">Wake Up Beauty It's Time To Beast</a><br>
<a href="other-peoples-computers.html">Other People's Computers</a><br>
<b>Speak Softly / Carry a Big Stick</b><br>
<a href="a-penny-earned.html">A Penny Earned</a></p>
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<a id="speak-softly-carry-a-big-stick" class="anchor" href="#speak-softly-carry-a-big-stick" aria-hidden="true"><span aria-hidden="true" class="octicon octicon-link"></span></a>Speak Softly / Carry a Big Stick</h3>
<p>The Leadership Project. Not so much the accomplishment of a goal through the direction of assistants, but a focus on helping others and myself do the right thing by developing leadership skills.</p>
<p><ul><li>Objective: Explore Expansion vs Contraction</li>
<li><strike>Key Result: Write a book</strike> [done]</li>
<li><strike>Key Result: Embrace writing as an exploration rather than a grind</strike> [done]</li>
<li><strike>Key Result: Demolish writer's block</strike> [done]</li>
<li><strike>Action: Read I Don't Want To, I Don't Feel Like It by Cheri Huber</strike> [done]</li>
<li><strike>Action: Daily blog posts</strike> [done]</li>
<li><strike>Action: October 2022 Professional Blog Post</strike> [done]</li>
<li><strike>Action: November 2022 Professional Blog Post</strike> [done]</li>
<li><strike>Action: December 2022 Professional Blog Post</strike> [done]</li>
<li><strike>Action: Outline ten chapters</strike> [done]</li>
<li><strike>Action: Publish outline / intention</strike> [done]</li>
<li><strike>Action: Write each chapter</strike> [done]</li></ul>
<ul><li>Objective: Harness the brilliance of the Brilliant Black Hole of D00m</li>
<li>Key Result: Answer, “What’s the thought process / mental belief system?”</li>
<li>Key Result: Answer “What’s the pattern? How to interrupt it?”</li>
<li>Action: Read the Internal Family Systems Model</li>
<li>Action: Saturday Night Research [in progress]</li>
<li>Action: Focus on consistent daily meditation practice [in progress]</li></ul>
<ul><li>Objective: Protector without underlying Anger</li>
<li>Key Result: Not that frustration will ever go away or be eliminated but allowing for frustration and imperfection and stress and change</li>
<li><strike>Action: Put up “expectations ≠ reality” poster</strike> [DONE]</li>
<li>Key Result: Be present all the time</li>
<li>Action: Daily meditation [in progress]</li>
<li>Action: Daily Purposeful Green Flips [in progress]</li></ul>
<ul><li><strike>Objective: Build out Rain.Dev</strike> [DONE]</li>
<li><strike>Key Result: Publish Rain.Dev</strike> [DONE]</li>
<li><strike>Action: Design Rain.Dev</strike> [DONE]</li>
<li><strike>Action: Upload to GitHub</strike> [DONE]</li>
<li><strike>Action: Hosting</strike> [DONE]</li>
<li><strike>Action: Publish Site</strike> [DONE]</li></ul>
<ul><li>Objective: Speak at TED #NBD</li>
<li>Key Result: Learn how to speak at TED and regional TED events</li>
<li>Key Result: Speak at TED</li>
<li>Key Result: Prepare for Speaking Engagements</li>
<li>Action: Research how to talk at TED</li>
<li>Action: Prepare for Speaking Engagements in general</li>
<li>Action: Brainstorm subjects</li>
<li>Action: Research possible subjects</li>
<li>Action: Prepare talks</li>
<li>Action: Apply to speak at TED</li></ul>
<ul><li>Objective: Conscious Parenting</li>
<li>Key Result: Feel more comfortable with parenting</li>
<li>Key Result: Figure out Anger Management Issues</li>
<li><strike>Action: Read Potty Training in 3 Days</strike> [done]</li>
<li><strike>Action: Read The Whole Brain Child</strike> [done]</li>
<li>Action: Read Raising Human Beings</li>
<li>Action: Read The Explosive Child</li>
<li>Action: Read How to Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So Kids Will Talk</li>
<li>Action: Read How to Talk So Little Kids Will Listen</li>
<li>Action: Read Anger Management Workbook for Kids [in progress]</li></ul>
<ul><li>Objective: Conflict Resolution</li>
<li>Key Result: Feel more comfortable / confident with conflict resolution</li>
<li>Action: Read The Essential Workplace Conflict Handbook</li>
<li>Action: Read The Mindful Guide to Conflict Resolution: How to Thoughtfully Handle Difficult Situations, Conversations, and Personalities</li>
<li>Action: Read Surrounded by Idiots: The Four Types of Human Behavior and How to Effectively Communicate with Each in Business (and in Life) [in progress]</li>
<li>Action: Read Crucial Conversations: Tools for Talking When Stakes Are High</li>
<li>Action: Read Everything Is Workable: A Zen Approach to Conflict Resolution</li>
<li>Action: Read The Conflict Pivot</li>
<li>Action: Read The Dance of Opposites: Explorations in Mediation, Dialogue and Conflict Resolution Systems Design</li>
<li>Action: Read Beyond Neutrality: Confronting the Crisis in Conflict Resolution</li>
<li>Action: Read The Conflict Paradox: Seven Dilemmas at the Core of Disputes</li>
<li>Action: Read Managing Conflict: A Practical Guide to Resolution in the Workplace</li></ul>
<ul><li>Objective: Relationship(s)</li>
<li>Key Result: Receive Feedback Gracefully</li>
<li>Key Result: Strengthen Healthy Relationships</li>
<li>Key Result: End Toxic Relationships</li>
<li>Key Result: Navigate Alternative Interpersonal Communication</li>
<li><strike>Action: Discuss with Life Coach</strike> [done]</li>
<li><strike>Action: Read The Power of Now</strike> [DONE]</li>
<li>Action: Read Thanks for the Feedback: The Science and Art of Receiving Feedback Well [in progress]</li></ul>
<ul><li>Objective: Organization Experiment</li>
<li>Key Result: Know how to organize the weekday / weekend / holiday / vacation</li>
<li>Key Result: Know how to clean the house</li>
<li>Key Result: Know how to cook</li>
<li>Action: Learn WHEN to eat throughout the day [in progress]</li>
<li>Action: Learn how to mend clothes and practice</li>
<li>Action: Change the oil in the car three times</li>
<li>Action: Clean the house</li>
<li>Action: Cook for the whole family for a week</li>
<li>Action: Organize the office</li>
<li>Action: Organize the basement</li>
<li>Action: Organize the garage</li>
<li>Action: Organize the kitchen</li>
<li>Action: Organize the whole house</li></ul>
<ul><li>Objective: Rain Inc Board of Directors</li>
<li>Key Result: Develop a Close Network of Mentors / Connections / Awesomeness</li>
<li>Action: Read Networking Is Not Working</li>
<li>Action: Read Superconnector</li>
<li>Action: Read Never Eat Alone</li>
<li>Action: Read Give and Take</li>
<li>Action: Read The Charisma Myth</li>
<li>Action: Read The No Asshole Rule</li>
<li>Action: Read An Introvert's Guide to Networking</li>
<li>Action: Read The Introvert’s Edge to Networking</li>
<li>Action: Develop / implement a networking plan based on research / reading</li>
<li>Action: Reach out to one new person each month [in progress]</li></ul>
<ul><li>Objective: Communication SME</li>
<li>Key Result: Stream on Twitch.tv/Twitter/YouTube 2-3 times per week</li>
<li>Action: Read Everybody Writes by Ann Handley</li>
<li>Action: Set up OBS scenes</li>
<li>Action: Set up VDO Ninja</li>
<li>Action: Set up Stream Deck</li></ul>
<ul><li>Milestone | NonBinary Gender SME</li>
<li><strike>Action: Read Beyond the Gender Binary by Alok Vaid-Menon</strike> [done]</li>
<li>Action: Read Life Isn't Binary by Meg-John Barker and Alex Iantaffi</li>
<li>Action: Read They Them Their by Eris Young</li>
<li>Action: Read In Their Shoes by Jame Windust</li>
<li>Action: Maintain / Update github.com/rainleander/nonbinary-resources [in progress]</li></ul></p>
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