Improve interoperability between `SyclDevice` and DLPack devices #5227

Job	Run time
build_linux (3.9)	38m 57s
build_linux (3.10)	38m 49s
build_windows (3.9)	1h 6m 21s
build_linux (3.11)	40m 8s
build_windows (3.10)	1h 15m 55s
build_linux (3.12)	39m 31s
build_windows (3.11)	1h 15m 5s
build_linux (3.13)	39m 19s
build_windows (3.12)	1h 6m 15s
build_windows (3.13)	1h 6m 13s
test_examples_linux (3.11, false, ubuntu-22.04)	25m 55s
test_linux (3.9, false, ubuntu-22.04)	13m 8s
array-api-conformity (3.10, false, ubuntu-22.04)	7m 50s
test_linux (3.10, false, ubuntu-22.04)	11m 36s
test_linux (3.11, false, ubuntu-22.04)	14m 21s
test_linux (3.12, false, ubuntu-22.04)	13m 51s
test_linux (3.13, false, ubuntu-22.04)	12m 51s
upload_linux	0s
test_windows (3.9, false, windows-2019)	14m 47s
test_windows (3.10, false, windows-2019)	14m 32s
test_windows (3.11, false, windows-2019)	15m 50s
test_windows (3.12, false, windows-2019)	16m 25s
test_windows (3.13, false, windows-2019)	14m 52s
upload_windows	0s
Clean up anaconda packages	0s
	12h 2m 31s

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