Fix reload instructions to be platform-specific and actionable

[tylerwillis]

Summary

• Fix confusing /reload instructions that don't exist in Claude Code
• Add reload_instructions property to adapters with platform-specific text
• Update deepwork sync to display reload instructions after syncing
• Update instruction files to tell agent to relay sync output to user directly

Problem

Users were told to run /reload after defining a job, but this command doesn't exist in Claude Code. They had to figure out on their own that they needed to exit and restart.

Solution

1. Platform-specific reload instructions in adapters:

   • Claude Code: "Type 'exit' then run 'claude --resume'"
   • Gemini CLI: "Run '/memory refresh'"

2. deepwork sync now displays reload instructions:

   ✓ Sync complete!
   
   To use the new commands:
     Claude Code: Type 'exit' to leave your current session, then run 'claude' (fresh start) or 'claude --resume' (keep conversation history).
   

3. Instruction files tell agent to relay (not reference) the instructions:

   • Before: "Tell user to follow reload instructions from sync output" (bad UX - user has to scroll up)
   • After: "Look at sync output and relay these exact instructions to user" (agent tells user directly)

Test plan

• Run /deepwork_jobs.define then /deepwork_jobs.implement to create a new job
• Verify deepwork sync output shows platform-specific reload instructions
• Verify agent tells user the specific reload steps (not just "see sync output")

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