Fix node tainting when using UseProviderId with SQS monitors

[Sithembiso-Mashinini]

Issue #, if available:

Description of changes:

Fixes node tainting failures when UseProviderId is enabled and Kubernetes node names differ from AWS PrivateDnsNames (e.g., clusters using instance IDs as node names).

PreDrainTask functions in SQS event handlers used interruptionEvent.NodeName (AWS PrivateDnsName) directly, causing tainting to fail when the Kubernetes node name didn't match. Drain/cordon operations worked because they resolved the correct node name via provider ID lookup

Example Failure

  {"level":"info","node-name":"ip-10-2-143-153.ec2.internal","instance-id":"i-0457d1e6522ad899c","provider-id":"aws:///us-east-1d/i-0457d1e6522ad899c","message":"Requesting instance drain"}
  {"level":"debug","target_provider_id":"aws:///us-east-1d/i-0457d1e6522ad899c","message":"Looking up node by ProviderID"}
  {"level":"debug","node_name":"i-0457d1e6522ad899c","node_provider_id":"aws:///us-east-1d/i-0457d1e6522ad899c","match":true,"message":"Checking node"}
  {"level":"debug","found_node":"i-0457d1e6522ad899c","message":"Returning node name"}
  {"level":"warn","node_name":"ip-10-2-143-153.ec2.internal","label_selector":"kubernetes.io/hostname in (ip-10-2-143-153,ip-10-2-143-153.ec2.internal)","matching_nodes":0,"message":"No nodes found with label selector"}
  {"level":"error","error":"nodes ip-10-2-143-153.ec2.internal not found","node_name":"ip-10-2-143-153.ec2.internal","message":"Failed to get node directly"}
  {"level":"error","error":"Unable to fetch kubernetes node from API: nodes ip-10-2-143-153.ec2.internal not found","message":"unable to taint node"}
  {"level":"info","node_name":"i-0457d1e6522ad899c","message":"Draining the node"}  // Works fine
  {"level":"info","node_name":"i-0457d1e6522ad899c","message":"Node successfully cordoned and drained"}  // Works fine

How you tested your changes:
Environment Linux:
Kubernetes Version: v1.31.5

By submitting this pull request, I confirm that my contribution is made under the terms of the Apache 2.0 license.

[Sithembiso-Mashinini]

@tiationg-kho nudge on this 🙏