reworking ruby 3 upgrade

[wendelfabianchinsamy]

Purpose

There was something done in the original upgrade implementation that was preventing shoryuken workers from starting up. I reverted the changes and started implementing them back slowly to get the master working again.

closes: Add github issue that originated this PR

Approach

Open Questions and Pre-Merge TODOs

Learning

Types of changes

• Bug fix (non-breaking change which fixes an issue)

• New feature (non-breaking change which adds functionality)

• Breaking change (fix or feature that would cause existing functionality to change)

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[kaysiz]

LGTM