Backport of chore(deps): bump github.com/hashicorp/go-set/v3 from 3.0.0-alpha.1 to 3.0.0 into release/1.9.x

Backport of chore(deps): bump github.com/hashicorp/go-set/v3 from 3.0.0-alpha.1 to 3.0.0 into release/1.9.x #16398