cmake: Check `-D_FORTIFY_SOURCE` before applying #2651

Job	Run time
Win64 native, VS 2022	1h 2m 17s
macOS 13 native, x86_64, no depends, sqlite only, gui	34m 26s
ASan + LSan + UBSan + integer, no depends, USDT	27m 6s
test each commit	0s
	2h 3m 49s

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