fix: reduce mount lock to avoid volumeID collision issue

[andyzhangx]

What type of PR is this?
/kind bug

What this PR does / why we need it:
fix: reduce mount lock to avoid volumeID collision issue
the volumeHandle(volumeID) could be duplicated in PV, and duplicated volumeHandle(volumeID) is already allowed in latest k8s version, this PR reduces mount lock to avoid volumeID collision issue, the lock only happen when volumeID + stagingPath is the same

Which issue(s) this PR fixes:

Fixes #1620

Requirements:

• uses conventional commit messages
• includes documentation
• adds unit tests
• tested upgrade from previous version

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Release note:

fix: reduce mount lock to avoid volumeID collision issue

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/cherrypick release-1.29

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/cherrypick release-1.28

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@andyzhangx: new pull request created: #1643

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/cherrypick release-1.29

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@andyzhangx: new pull request created: #1644

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