update(meson): make meson the default build tool

[jdhughes-usgs]

• remove SUTRA from list of usgsprograms because of issues with meson build

[codecov]

Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 84.61538% with 2 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 75.664%. Comparing base (b79af98) to head (b89d14e).

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- Coverage   84.243%   75.664%   -8.579%     
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  Files           20        20               
  Lines         3497      3497               
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- Hits          2946      2646      -300     
- Misses         551       851      +300     

Files	Coverage Δ
pymake/pymake_base.py	74.160% <100.000%> (-16.008%)	⬇️
pymake/pymake_build_apps.py	87.610% <100.000%> (-0.783%)	⬇️
pymake/pymake_parser.py	100.000% <ø> (ø)
pymake/utils/_meson_build.py	88.846% <80.000%> (-1.231%)	⬇️

... and 8 files with indirect coverage changes