MAINT Fix meson build options #1433

Job	Run time
Source distribution	1m 51s
Build wheels on manylinux - x86_64 with Python cp39	2m 22s
Build wheels on manylinux - x86_64 with Python cp310	2m 4s
Build wheels on Arm M1 with Python cp39	2m 15s
Build wheels on manylinux - x86_64 with Python cp311	1m 55s
Build wheels on Arm M1 with Python cp310	1m 55s
Build wheels on manylinux - x86_64 with Python cp312	2m 0s
Build wheels on Arm M1 with Python cp311	2m 1s
Build wheels on macosx - x86_64 with Python cp39	3m 5s
Build wheels on Arm M1 with Python cp312	1m 49s
Build wheels on macosx - x86_64 with Python cp310	3m 47s
Build wheels on macosx - x86_64 with Python cp311	2m 30s
Build wheels on macosx - x86_64 with Python cp312	3m 25s
Build wheels on win - AMD64 with Python cp39	5m 55s
Build wheels on win - AMD64 with Python cp310	5m 56s
Build wheels on win - AMD64 with Python cp311	4m 41s
Build wheels on win - AMD64 with Python cp312	5m 47s
Merge all wheels into one directory	7s
	53m 25s

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