fix: make deleteOldFiles / moveNewVersionInPlace more robust

[joshtrichards]

Don't do any write operations on files or direcories within RDI.

This will make the Updater more robust in FreeBSD and NFS environments (possibly others but those are the known ones).

Fixes #158

Avoids the problem that arose in #517 due to #515 by keeping the memory usage minimal by doing all the exclusions first, not directly converting the iterator to an array, and so the the resulting array sizes stay minimal.

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Verified to work with 72,000+ objects in the apps/ folder (600+ directories containing 120 files each) without exceeding a memory_limit of 256M.

What this does:

• basically what we already do in recursiveDelete()
• most critical in deleteOldFiles() & moveWithExclusions()

Notes:

• probably would be wise to do in createBackup() & checkWritePermissions() too, but less critical since deletions/renames aren't taking place in those
• There are opportunities to do refactoring/streamlining/code clean-up but out of scope to keep this PR focused and easily reviewable.

Refs:

• https://bugs.php.net/bug.php?id=69291 (particularly the last comment)
• https://bugs.freebsd.org/bugzilla/show_bug.cgi?id=57696

Cc: @caco3

[joshtrichards]

Test failure in master is unrelated. It's due to nextcloud/server#49224 and currently impacting all PRs in this repo.

[come-nc]

Superseeded by #516 I think?

[caco3]

Superseeded by #516 I think?

Yes, I would say so.