fix: handle undefined deref() of WeakRef(socket) (#3751) (#3822)

* fix: handle undefined deref of weakref socket

* exit early

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Co-authored-by: Aras Abbasi <aras.abbasi@googlemail.com>
(cherry picked from commit f98fbef)

Co-authored-by: hochoy <hochoy@users.noreply.github.com>

lib/core/connect.js

@@ -220,6 +220,11 @@ const setupConnectTimeout = process.platform === 'win32'
  * @param {number} opts.port
  */
 function onConnectTimeout (socket, opts) {
+  // The socket could be already garbage collected
+  if (socket == null) {
+    return
+  }
+
   let message = 'Connect Timeout Error'
   if (Array.isArray(socket.autoSelectFamilyAttemptedAddresses)) {
     message += ` (attempted addresses: ${socket.autoSelectFamilyAttemptedAddresses.join(', ')},`