remove PodMonitors when instances are paused #2856

Job	Run time
Find crates that changed	27s
Find crates that changed	20s
Cargo publish or validate (./tembo-operator, tembo-operator)	2m 47s
Cargo publish or validate (./tembo-operator, tembo-operator)	2m 28s
Cargo publish or validate (./tembo-stacks, tembo-stacks)	1m 20s
Cargo publish or validate (./conductor, conductor)	27s
Cargo publish or validate (./examples/create-extension/my_extension, my_extension)	21s
Cargo publish or validate (./inference-gateway, inference-gateway)	44s
Cargo publish or validate (./dataplane-webserver, dataplane-webserver)	48s
Cargo publish or validate (./tembo-pod-init, tembo-pod-init)	25s
Cargo publish or validate (./tembo-cli, tembo-cli)	1m 11s
Cargo publish or validate (./tembo-cli/tembodataclient, tembodataclient)	52s
Cargo publish or validate (./tembo-cli/temboclient, temboclient)	1m 20s
	13m 30s

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