Add connection_timeout_ms and reset the timeout counter more often #188

Job	Run time
📦 Build the source distribution	23s
📦 Build the source distribution	23s
Tests for Kafka 0.9.0.1 (Python 3.12)	3m 52s
Tests for Kafka 0.9.0.1 (Python 3.12)	3m 52s
Tests for Kafka 0.10.2.2 (Python 3.12)	4m 0s
Tests for Kafka 0.10.2.2 (Python 3.12)	4m 0s
Tests on 3.8	7m 1s
Tests on 3.8	7m 1s
Tests for Kafka 0.11.0.2 (Python 3.12)	5m 27s
Tests for Kafka 0.11.0.2 (Python 3.12)	5m 27s
Tests on 3.9	6m 16s
Tests on 3.9	6m 16s
Tests for Kafka 0.11.0.3 (Python 3.12)	5m 45s
Tests for Kafka 0.11.0.3 (Python 3.12)	5m 45s
Tests for Kafka 1.1.1 (Python 3.12)	7m 56s
Tests for Kafka 1.1.1 (Python 3.12)	7m 56s
Tests on 3.10	6m 58s
Tests on 3.10	7m 11s
📦 Publish to PyPI	0s
📦 Publish to PyPI	0s
Tests on 3.11	6m 23s
Tests on 3.11	6m 23s
Tests for Kafka 2.4.0 (Python 3.12)	9m 44s
Tests for Kafka 2.4.0 (Python 3.12)	9m 44s
Tests on 3.12	6m 52s
Tests on 3.12	6m 52s
Tests for Kafka 2.5.0 (Python 3.12)	6m 43s
Tests for Kafka 2.5.0 (Python 3.12)	6m 43s
Tests on pypy3.9	6m 57s
Tests on pypy3.9	6m 57s
Tests for Kafka 2.6.0 (Python 3.12)	6m 43s
Tests for Kafka 2.6.0 (Python 3.12)	6m 43s
Tests for Kafka 0.8.2.2 (Python 3.12)	15m 14s
Tests for Kafka 0.8.2.2 (Python 3.12)	15m 14s
Tests for Kafka 0.8.2.2 (Python 3.10)	2m 36s
Tests for Kafka 0.8.2.2 (Python 3.10)	2m 36s
✅ Ensure the required checks passing	4s
✅ Ensure the required checks passing	1s
	3h 37m 58s

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