feat(neon): Reset SelectOption if value is not in values

[provokateurin]

Towards #892, but it doesn't fix it because the AppsBloc is still making problems.

[Leptopoda]

Have you made sure that the push distributor option still works?
Some options (initialApp, initialAccount and pushNotificationsDistributor) don't have initial values. Therefore the reset might conflict with loading the initial value.
I currently could only test the first two this sorry 😅

It might not be a problem as the forceload parameter isn't used anywhere (we could maybe remove it in a followup).

[Leptopoda]

Please squash the first two commits

[provokateurin]

Some options (initialApp, initialAccount and pushNotificationsDistributor) don't have initial values. Therefore the reset might conflict with loading the initial value.

You were right, I changed it so it only sets _value. Once the values are set they will validate that the loaded value is correct.

I'll do some testing on all these options.

[provokateurin]

I tested the 3 critical options and they all still work as expected.

[provokateurin]

The problem of the disappearing initial app is fixed in #1310